Dan Savage is famous because of his "Savage Love" sex advising column and podcast and term "monogamish". He is also introduced "pegging" definition together with his readers. And the craziest and funny term invented by his community is "santorum"

His talks are humoristic and inspiring, if you want to introduce your conservative vanilla friends to swinging/kink etc., send them link to any Dan's talk - this is half of success :-)

One of such inspiring talk is The 3 Things We Get Wrong About Sex, Love & Monogamy | Dan Savage